I dreamed about my ex fiancé and he was trying to hug me like nothing happened and I got really upset and I told him to get off me and I threw him down the stairs from the attic. I felt awful almost guilty and I wanted to run after him to make sure he was okay but didn’t move and I told mom my to tell him to leave that I never wanted to see him again. And she told him he was never welcomed in this house again
Dreams about ex-partners often reflect unresolved feelings or unfinished emotional business related to that relationship. In this dream, the ex-fiancé trying to hug you may symbolize a desire for emotional connection or closure with that person. However, your reaction of getting upset, pushing him down the stairs, and telling him to leave suggests that there are lingering negative emotions and a strong desire to cut ties with him.
Throwing him down the stairs could represent your subconscious mind's need to forcefully remove this person from your life and symbolize a desire to distance yourself from the previous relationship. Feeling guilty afterward indicates that while you may want to move on, there could be a part of you that still feels remorse or conflict about letting go.
Telling your mom to convey the message of him not being welcomed in the house again emphasizes a need to set firm boundaries and protect yourself from any potential emotional harm that might arise from a connection with your ex-fiancé.
Overall, this dream suggests a strong desire to move on from the past relationship, cut ties, and protect yourself from any potential emotional vulnerability or harm that may come from reconnecting with your ex-fiancé. It may be a sign that you are actively working through your feelings and seeking closure in waking life.